There’s a Chinese phrase going around, namely to describe the kind of guy every girl looks up to and want to get to know. It is ‘tall, rich, handsome’. If I have to say, maybe about 5% of the male population fit in this category? That’s why, to be very honest, as a female, things are simply about looks and money. Looks definitely change and money isn’t the most loyal thing either.
Ladies, you got to know, we are often envious of girls who date guys born into rich families. We also dislike those rich girls who are the have-it-alls. But think about it seriously, how many people are actually born with a silver spoon in their mouths? Then, again, how many successful people were born with a silver spoon in a mouth?
Not all the time, right? In fact, in a capitalistic and globalised world like today, it is much easier to climb up the ranks than in the past. You can be raking in billions just using a computer platform? Look at Mark Zuckerberg. Think about his wife. How she stood behind him and supported his dreams all this while.
What I’m trying to put across is: please value ambitions and talents over superficial assets like his background and appearance.
When it really comes to marriage, a husband who has huge ambitions and the talent to support his dreams is the perfect man. Why? Because, for you, for himself, for his family, he’ll put in all his efforts just to make his dreams work. When he savours the sweetness that comes from his blood, sweat and tears, he’ll make sure to never let go of his hard work, of his ambitions.
On the contrary, someone born rich but without ambitions can simply spend his days doing nothing but spending money. Will you really be happy with such a lifestyle? What’s more, money is not all there is to happiness. And money is not endless. There may be one day, even his mountain of assets can turn into zero.
A man, with or without bills, is unimportant. It is where his mind is. Does he have a goal. Does he have his dreams? Got what I mean?